Insecure

 By: Ragil 

Who has ever felt insecure? I think everyone has experienced it, including me. In my opinion, insecurity is fear or inferiority that is created due to several factors such as fear of failure or rejection, what other people say to us, and who are definitely victims of bullying.

Fear of failure or rejection is not just because the person is not prepared for something, it could be that the person has failed at the same thing but instead of getting support from the closest people, but ridicule or become a joke. Shouldn't you as a close friend give support instead of laughing at his failure? It's good if the person who failed can get up to be better but if on the other hand, the person becomes insecure about his abilities and becomes a spectator of every activity.

Furthermore, the impact of bullying, the impact of bullying is very large on victims ranging from physical to mental victims which can make the person more closed, and not infrequently there are also those who choose to end their lives. I'm still confused about the exact reason someone is bullying. Some say for their own pleasure, there are also feelings of envy towards that person. I think if that's true then it's a stupid and unreasonable excuse.

And the last thing is to always listen to what other people have to say about us, not infrequently we always hear and even think about the negative words of others towards us, especially when the talk comes from those closest to us such as friends, teachers and even parents and siblings. It's true that people's words are not certain to corner us, but the selection of inappropriate words can lead to misunderstandings.

For people who always feel insecure, it's okay, it's a natural thing, as long as we can rise from that feeling. Memories of bitter experiences are not easy to forget but we can use them as motivation for ourselves to be better. Doing actions that harm ourselves is also not a way out of the problems we face. Think positive and always remember as many bad people around us, there is still God and good people who are always there.

Positive and negative responses are always present in every action we take, so don't get too hung up on negative responses, because there are still positive responses that we must appreciate. And lastly, make mistakes as lessons